2010, മേയ് 31, തിങ്കളാഴ്‌ച

Understanding love




Possessiveness, jealousy, lust, fear, keeping people all to you or expecting something from someone. Is this love?
Real love is unconditional. To love someone unconditionally means that you love the person exactly as they are, exactly as they were before, and exactly as they will be in the future. Because people change all the time, so if you love the person, you will love them even if they become something you disagree with.

It’s not about what you get out of it or what the other person can give to you. Unconditional love means that the person can just live their life exactly as they choose and you will always be there for them no matter what.

Unconditional love is more of a spiritual thing. It’s not bound by physical things, like blood relations and the desire to procreate. It has nothing whatsoever to do with sex. Relationships based on needs are not unconditional. Would they get jealous if the person they “love” wanted to spend time with other people as well?

If the person we “love” suddenly lost for whatever reason, we still want to be with that person. And also even death can’t break love apart. Love is stronger than death even though it can't stop death from happening, but no matter how hard death tries it can't separate people from love. It can't take away our memories either.

And I think I can understand you my dear…

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  1. Love??? Being a man with no emotions.......and accustomed to using the word love as some kinda joke.....hehe...But yes, i would agree, its one word that misinterpreted in this world....Each one of us have different ideas on it...and u have pointed that in ur blog....cool...
    my love is for everything....but when it comes to a certain person, am blank..i should agree that i am not serious about it and may be in the coming 2years i wont be serious on that..After 2 years, If god allows, i will try not to be serious about it...GOD aka my buddy said that am gona marry within 2 yrs...He has no other job....what to do

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